[Answer] I Suddenly Fell for Someone, but I Feel Like I’m Not Good Enough for Her—What Should I Do?

[Answer] I Suddenly Fell for Someone, but I Feel Like I’m Not Good Enough for Her—What Should I Do?

There is a situation in which, if you truly love someone to the core of your being, you begin to feel that they possess countless wonderful qualities, as though they were floating among white clouds, while you yourself seem to have countless shortcomings, wishing you could humble yourself all the way down into the dust. The admiration in your heart may feel as though the moment you speak it aloud, it would somehow profane them; yet if you keep it unspoken, it may leave you trapped in regret and despair.

So perhaps it is still better to make the effort and bravely confess your feelings. Maybe even after confessing, nothing good will come of it—but maybe this is also the only way to save yourself. As Qu Yun wrote, “What is love in this world, that it makes people pledge themselves even in life and death...” It is roughly like that.

Wishing you happiness.